Warrior Women - Help and Hope
There are times in each of our lives when we need someone ahead of us in the journey, someone we can turn to with questions, confusion, hurts, disappointments and even our tears...
Grief and the Risk-Taking Heart
Grief doesn't start when someone dies. Grief happens when any kind of loss slams a person into a wall, turns a life upside down, shatters dreams...
Loves Me, Loves Me Not
My husband is a romantic and I have lots of stories I could tell about how he has demonstrated his love in surprising ways over the years. In ways that are so much better than a Valentine's Day Card that he has to buy because of marketing pressure...
Honest Grief
My friend's cries pulled me back to those early years after Mark's death. The anguish in her voice, face, eyes, words was almost too much to bear because I knew the reality of the deep sorrow...
Warrior Women - Through it All
When I see women marching for their rights I think of women who have or are quietly marching for righteousness in their own life journeys. Warrior Women, facing extraordinary...
Cruise Director Grammy
"Ahh, here come the cruise guests!" my husband exclaimed as Dan and Laura dropped off their three younger children for the day so that they could enjoy biking around Washington, D.C.with
And God Wanted More
I first shared this post (Original Title: Trust and Obey and . . . Trust) on January 6, 2013 and it is one of my most read blog posts. As I face a year of change in 2017, this message resonates with me once more, reminding me that...
Be With Me Now - A Pathway to Christmas, Part 4
"Be with me now," sang the young actress, fully surrendered to her World War II character, Eleanor. It was Christmas Eve, 1944, and Eleanor had not received any word from her soldier boy...
Hurting People still Seek Him
The thirty-something grocery store cashier responded quickly to my, "How is your day going?" with, "This is the best day of the week. I get to go to church tonight." Suddenly my polite inquiry turned into a...
Whatever it Takes - A Pathway to Christmas - Part 2
Christmas accentuates depression, grief, broken relationships, discontentment, jealousy, shattered families. Even those whose lives exude joy and peace experience unexpected sadness...
A Path that Leads to Christmas - Follow the Star
The beautiful young woman's strained voice revealed the deep pain she was trying to minimize. Her mother died when she was very young, her father remarried and the step-mother fit the Cinderella stereotype.
Woodmore Elementary School, Chattanooga, Valley of Tears
November 21, 2016, started like any other day for the children of Woodmore Elementary School. Parents placed their children on the school buses, trusting that this day would be like any other, the children would arrive...
Same-Sex Attraction - A Man's Perspective
MARKINC Ministries is committed to leaning into the pain of life experiences that often go unnoticed by the church and society in general. The Help and Hope audio library...
Apples, Peaches, Pears and Plums
At a recent family reunion, my sister and I reminisced about our childhood family gatherings. Gayle asked, "Do you remember how old we thought our great aunts and uncles were?" I chuckled...
My Circumstances - My Platform
The ache in my chest refused to break. The grey skies matched my mood. Our sixteen-year-old son Mark's fatal car accident was a faint memory for most people but for the past three years...
Same-Sex Attraction - Dr. Rosaria Butterfield
Do you have questions about same sex attraction? Is it wrong? Is it ok? Are you struggling with same sex attraction personally? Is your child? Chuck and I recently had the privilege of asking...
Townville Community - A City of Tears
Townville, SC (WLTX, WSPA) - The mother of Jacob Hall, the 6-year-old who died from injuries sustained in a school shooting in South Carolina, called her son a "angel" who...
Townville Elementary School and Fear
The mother of a student at Townville Elementary School told CNN Greenville Affiliate WYFF that her daughter and classmates huddled in a bathroom. "Her teacher was shaken up. I know all the kids were...
How Am I Traveling Heavenward?
Imagine you arrive as an immigrant in America, newly widowed, grieving the death of your infant daughter. You are forty years old, alone in a foreign country and responsible for the care of your nine...
When I am Resentful at Thirty-five Years of Age
Writer's block. Five attempts at writing this week's blog with very little progress. And then I remembered finding a church newsletter, dated June 1983 as I cleaned out old files. There I found this article I wrote...