Does Everyone, Christian and Non-Christian, Stand before God?
In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "This question came up during a small group Bible discussion: Does everyone, Christian and non-Christian stand before God’s…
Is It Wrong To Keep The Memories Of A Loved One?
In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "Is it wrong for me to keep the sympathy flowers for memories? Is it wrong for me to keep my daughter’s ashes? Is it also wrong for me to take the cremains everywhere I go? Is it wrong for me to keep her clothes and her room…
What If I Don't want Eternal Life?
In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "I love The Lord but I can promise you I Do NOT want to live forever. Do I have to if I really don’t want to?? Please answer"
Should I End A Toxic Relationship?
In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "When is the best time to end a relationship with toxic family members? As a child…
If People Are Predestined- Why Do We Need To Share The Gospel?
In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "Has God predestined who would be saved? If the answer is yes, why do we Christian still need to fulfill our obligation to share the gospel to the end of the world?"
How Can We Save Our Loved Ones?
In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "Hi my brother grew up Christian, and went to college to be a pastor. During those years he struggled with alcoholism. He prayed to God to help him conquer that but he felt betrayed by God because he struggled with it for many more years and even gave up trying to preach. He now says that he doesn't even believe in God because if he really existed he would have taken that from him. He then takes it further and says he can't believe in a God who lets children and babies and even adults suffer, all the while keeping their neighbor safe. How can I try and bring him back to God other than praying for him?"
Should We Care What Others Think Of Us?
In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "The Bible teaches us not to care about what other people think about you but we live in a world where we are “supposed to care”, I would even say, “have to care” such as with our boss, our spouse...how do you draw the line?"
How Can I Pursue Jesus When Everything Is Okay?
In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "I’ve watched a bunch of your videos and it breaks my heart to hear about all the pain and suffering people are dealing with. To be honest, right now I feel like my life is going really well, no major issues, no struggles, no problems but after watching your videos I realized that I am not really deepening my relationship with Christ because, well, “things are good”. I mean, people seem to need Jesus more when they are hurting but how do you need Him just as much when things are ok?"
Can I View God As A Motherly Figure?
In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "I grew up in a very abusive home. My father was a terrible man and has caused me great pain and suffering. My mother finally got the courage to leave him but the damage was already done. I am now in my 30’s and have recently begun attending church. I just heard a sermon that was all about viewing God as our father and it caused me to want to vomit because it made me think about all the horrible things my father did to me. I just can’t go there, I can’t use that image. Is it wrong to view God as a “motherly” figure? (refer to Isaiah 66:13, 49:15)"
Can Souls Lost In Hell Repent?
In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "If hell is as painful as Christians believe it to be, then the time will certainly come when the souls there will think they have had enough and repent and go back to God, right? ” Ecclesiastes 12:7"
Should We Seek Suffering?
In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "Where we called as Christians to avoid suffering vs. move toward/into suffering for the sake of service or for being like Christ?"
Fight Our Sin Or Fight For Joy?
In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "I listen to a lot of different Pastor’s and I feel like there are basically 2 main themes that I hear….they are either preaching the Gospel through the lense that we need to be fighting against our sin or they are preaching to ultimately fight for finding joy in all things. One feels like a finger pointer and the other a cheerleader….your videos seem to be very direct, so which is it? Fight our sin or fight for joy?"
Protecting Our Homes Spiritually
In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "Pastor Betters I have a niece who converted to the Muslim faith. My parents are older and followers of Christ. On one of my visits, I was told that my niece’s husband was in another room praying to Allah. Was I wrong for telling my parents to be careful of what they allow in their house and what they listen to?"
I'm Battling A Challenging Teenager, Help!
In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "I am battling a challenging teenager in my home. How does a parent respond to teenage questions that seem to push the envelope…
My Girlfriend Is Pregnant, What Do We Do?
In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "I just found out that my girlfriend is pregnant. We only met a few months ago. We both attend the same church and although we know what we did is wrong...I feel horrible and afraid, now what do we do?"
How Do I Deal With Emotional Abuse?
In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "People quickly recognize the pain and sin of physical abuse but what about emotional abuse. I know that everyone is sinful and the tongue can be a weapon but how far is too far? My husband doesn’t…
How Do I Make Good Decisions?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "I have a couple of big decisions in front of me. I have been praying about them for awhile seeking the Lord’s clarity and direction although I still do not feel at peace. Does that mean I’m making the wrong decision? Does that mean that both options are wrong? Should there always be peace about decisions before we make them?"
What is 'Predestination'?
In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "I have always struggled with understanding predestination and hoping you might be able to help me. I mean, if we are predestined and…
Did Jesus’ Death Undo Adam's Sin?
In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "If Jesus died for our sins, why are we still here on earth? The only reason we’re all not in Eden is because Adam and Eve sinned, but Jesus died for that sin, shouldn’t that mean that everyone should be back in Eden after Jesus’ sacrifice?"