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My Fiancée Was Sexually Abused. How Should I Prepare for Our Wedding Night?
In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "I am getting married in a month and I just found out my fiancée was sexually abused as a child. Knowing this, how should I prepare for my wedding night and our first year of marriage?"
How Do I Find Direction In A Toxic Environment?
In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "Hello, I am a college age female and I feel that God has left me. I feel like I always tried to follow his path even when none of my family goes to church, I felt all my life that God was telling me to go one direction in ministry and then when it was time to apply for schools and I tell people they told me that was not my calling…
Why Would God Create a World with So Much Evil? | Ask Dr. Betters
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "Why would God create a world with so much evil?”
I’m Too Sick To Attend Church, Am I Sinning?
In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "Due to various health issues, I have not been able to attend church for the past several months, is that sinful?"
Does God Want Me to Stay in an Abusive Marriage? | Ask Dr. Betters - Deconstructing One's Faith
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "Within the first weeks of marriage, I knew my husband was abusive…I try not to trigger him, but I’m exhausted and afraid. I was taught God hates divorce. So I feel like that is not an option, but is this what God wants for me?"
Is It Dangerous to Wait Until Just Before Death to Repent? | Ask Dr. Betters
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "…I am concerned about my best friend because she plans to repent just before she dies. I told her that she couldn’t outsmart Lord Jesus. How can I explain to her from a biblical point of view that she needs to be genuine in her repentance?"
Do We Have to Clean Ourselves Up in Order to Be in the Category of Someone Who Has Truly Repented??
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "Is repentance leaving all sin and then getting saved? I still smoke cigarettes!! Does that mean I’m not truly repented and saved? Do we have to clean ourselves up in order to be in the category of someone who has truly repented??"
Is It Too Late?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "How do I accept forgiveness for a sin against a loved one who died?"
Should I Leave My Boyfriend?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "Hello Sir. I have a few questions I want to ask. I'm a born-again woman and staying with a boyfriend who is a Muslim. we've been together for 5+ years now. we are not married and have a son together. he doesn't believe Jesus died for us. he doesn't no matter how hard I try to explain. I depend on him financially. How can I know that God wants me to leave this relationship? how can I know His(God) is okay with me dating him since I'm not working yet?"
Is There a Secret Sin?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "I have a close family member who believes that there is such a thing as a “secret sin” and that it’s between him and God with regard to this sin. I told him that when you’re truly in Christ Jesus there are no secret sins and that if any sin is got a stronghold on your life it needs openly confessed and accounted for by someone who can walk with you into restoration. Am I judgemental? Thank you"
Will We Still Be Married in Heaven? - Part 2
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question “Will we still be married to our spouse in Heaven?"
Is There Deliverance?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "Thank you so much for your ministry, dear Dr. Betters! God bless you and your family in Jesus' name. Do you have any advice for a believer still struggling with addiction? is there a need for some sort of deliverance when the struggle is ongoing and seems to be such a stronghold, even though you do what you don`t want to do, but can not break free, but the LORD did set us free but somehow you are still under a yoke of slavery....thank you!”
The 7 Deadly Sins
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "Hi Dr. Betters, could you do a video on the 7 deadly sins?"
Praying For The Safety Of My Child
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "If you have a passion for a certain prayer to be answered, would it be safe to say the Holy Spirit has given you that passion? I have been praying for the safety of my 2-year-old son and trying to get him completely away from the other parent. Lots of witchcraft and huge spiritual warfare. Very dire situation."
Is it a Sin to have a Tattoo?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "Hi Dr. Betters, how are you??? I was wondering about a question that I have had about tattoos! My uncle & I were talking the other day & he & his immediate family had the idea of having a loved one's name ( who passed away in March of 2022 ), tattooed on their bodies & had asked me if I was willing to do the same as them. I do not have any tattoos of any kind on my body & I dunno if I ever want one or any! Then I was reminded of a scripture verse. . . .Leviticus 19:28! Please help me to better understand this verse or any others like it, before I go & possibly do something foolish! Thank you for your time!"
"God Is Allowing Demons To Ruin My Life"
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "Does God punishes people with demons? Because I’ve been very confused lately and suffering greatly with theology and the Bible and who God is and I also believe I have demons and am in need of deliverance. However, I have cried out to God to help me but he doesn’t. I believe God is using demons to punish me. It’s so bad that I can’t even pray or read the Bible in peace. I feel there is something really evil and strong in my spirit. But God is allowing them to torment me to punish me. I know I sin relentlessly day after day and it’s overwhelming but I just can’t feel peace or rest. I have tried coming to Christ and being saved but I don’t believe what I did was effective. Either I have yet to be saved, or God didn’t choose me for salvation. I wasn’t predestined. I’m suffering a great deal and especially feeling and seeing that God/Jesus doesn’t love me"
Is Judas In Heaven?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "I have not studied the word as I should be. My question is did Jesus forgive Judas? Would he be in heaven?"
Does God Hate The Devil?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "Hi Dr. Betters. Thank you for this video explanation about angels! Because God is forever loving on one hand, but on the other hand, He hates sin. Lucifer was kicked out of heaven for his greed, selfishness, & hatefulness against God. Lucifer is now known as the devil. I have always believed that God now hates the devil. What is your take on this??? Does God hate the devil???"
Is Saying 'Oh My God' Blasphemy?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "Thank you Dr. Betters. Can I ask you something? I always hear people exclaim "oh my god". Is that blasphemy? We should not take the name of the Lord in vain. Please enlighten me...thank you!"
"How Did Evil Get Into Satan?"
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "I understand what you have said here. My question is how did evil get INTO Satan and the 1/3rd of the angels? God knows everything. So why did He not stop it? Thank you in advance. I am ENJOYING your channel and I share it with friends."