The Heart of a Life-Giver
“Oh, look! I used to go to youth group at that church!” My friend and her daughter were Christmas shopping. The daughter’s invitation to go to the mall shocked her mother because of the ongoing conflict between them. Her daughter’s life choices..
Trusting When Breathing Fails
This morning was episode 9,674 of strange things I never envisioned doing as a mother — training to operate a cough assist machine for Calvin. Essentially, it’s a machine that….
A Picture of the Church in My Boy’s Room
Our monitors were off, Calvin had gone to bed doing just fine the night before. Breathing well. Alert. It had been a rough weekend but we were hopeful that…
Head Down and into the Wind
Violet has been joining me on snowy post-dinner jogs through our neighborhood; at six years old she’s surprisingly fast and still finds enough breath for…
The Settling Years
I haven’t written much. Sometimes it seems like the words have dried up and there’s nothing more to say. But more truthfully, we are adjusting to the years of intensity becoming…
She Dares to Hope
I woke up at 2 a.m. to Calvin’s calls through the monitor. long vocalizations rising and falling. Never sure if it’s a cry of distress or just the simple joy of making noise, I made my way…
A Way to Happiness in a TGIF World
The message of a TGIF world is that work is a burden, something to be avoided, and an unpleasant part of life. While it is true that work includes struggle in a fallen world, it’s important to remember…
Gracey Parts of Faith
One of the joys of Daily Treasure for me is to introduce writers who have and are encouraging me in my own life journey. I stumbled on Kara Dedert’s blog and knew…
Older Women Still Need Older Women
I don't remember when I first wrote those words (Older women still need older women) in my journal. Although as I've continued my journey and can…
Reading Backwards
I read backwards not because of dyslexia. I read backwards in my journals to discern the voice of God. Reading backwards to find the path of life. Reading backwards to know…
Abundant Power
Can it be that God reminds us of His abundant power with just one word -- one seemingly inconsequential word in the story of Moses, a common everyday…
Our Reality, “But If Not”
Yes, I'm praying, God, please restore Bill's vision. (Bill, my husband, is not blind, but his Naion has left him with blind spots and partial vision in both eyes.) I'm human and this is my…
Books That Bridge
I grew up in New Jersey, a 45-minute drive from New York City via the George Washington Bridge, a two-story engineering marvel across the Hudson River. Did I tell you that my Grandpa was the…
Echoes of Grace
In tomorrow’s devotional, Sue asks us to consider what bridges God will use to lead us into His Word. Sometimes what seems inconsequential is actually…
The Church is Not About You
Today I want to address those who have been in church for a while. This is not about generations, or age. This is about mindset. There are many faithful…
For When You Want to Give in to Loneliness
A few weeks before my 30th birthday I attended a 30th birthday celebration for another woman. My family and I moved to town just a few months before….
Inside the Secret Thoughts of Your Pastor’s Wife
I’ve been a pastor’s wife now for over a decade. It is a beautiful privilege and heavy responsibility. It is a role that comes with many joys and sorrows, benefits and sacrifices, unexpected gifts and…
How to Support Your Pastor Through Church Conflict
Church conflict is no fun. Understatement of the year, right? Whether it is a small fire that pops up in a small group or a full-blown congregational wildfire, church conflict is…
Why I (The Pastor’s Wife) Have Trust Issues
Several years ago while on a road trip, I got to connect with a dear friend for lunch. Over salad and sandwiches, she made a statement that caught my attention: “Pastors’ wives have…