Atheism and the Christian's Response
In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "I personally am an atheist and respect this man for his words of acceptance. I feel a common misconception about atheists are that they are influenced by someone or something that happened In there life, but (unlike religion) this is most…
To spank or not to spank?...that is my question!
In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "To spank or not to spank?...that is my question! I have 3 children under the age of 5. I am a stay at home mom and spend a lot of time with other moms at playdates, at the park, etc. We are all trying to figure out this parenting thing and they have shared their strong opinions about how horrible…
Should Christians be armed?
In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "I feel like there is a story in the news almost every day about a shooting and then there is all the commentary around gun control, the 2nd amendment and on it goes….”
My husband is more concerned with being a good son than a good husband. What do I do?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "My husband and I have only been married for 6 months. In order to save money to buy a house of our own we decided to live with his parents for a while. It seemed like a good idea in the beginning but now…
My husband is addicted to porn! How do I confront him?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "I have been married now for 6 years and I thought things were going pretty well, that is until the past 6 months or so. We seem to be spending less and less time together, actually, he seems to be too busy to spend time with me. I’ve noticed…”
If a baby is born with a terminal illness, is it ever okay not to fight for the life of the baby?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "My friend’s son was born at 30 weeks with a rare skin condition. Babies with this skin condition usually die within the first days to first month of life. My friend has chosen to spend tens of thousands…
When things go wrong how can I respond with righteous anger instead of sinful anger?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "I am struggling with anger and I just don’t know what to do. I used to be happy but now even the small things that go wrong set me off. I have been a believer since I was a kid and I know that anger is a sin issue in my heart but I don’t know how to deal with it. I have been reading my bible and in Matthew 5:22 it says…”
How do I find joy in the mundane tasks of motherhood?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "I’m a stay at home mom and have been for the past 2 years. I used to work in corporate America, wore a suit and lead important meetings and now all I do is change diapers, pick up toys and…How do I find joy in these mundane tasks?"
Where does caring for the homeless turn into enabling?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "The bible teaches us to care for the homeless and give mercy, but where does it cross the line from mercy to enabling? How do we know if they are using our gift/money for things they actually need like food and clothing and not drugs or alcohol?"
My baby died 3 weeks after giving birth. How do I let go of the "what if"?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "Recently I went into labor and had my baby at 33 weeks. He had to be flown to a larger hospital with a NICU and we stayed there for 3 weeks. I can't stop thinking about things I should have done so that I could have kept him in a little longer like I should…
Does God take away life because of our sins and mistakes?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "I lost my mom, my dad, and my sister within three years. Each of them died naturally. I was wondering does God take away life because of our sins and mistakes? My family served God and I am continuing to serve God. I am burdened by he pain of the loss of my family and I am trying to understand why they died..."
How can I trust God when I'm faithful in prayer, but it seems that everything is being taken from me?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "I recently lost my job - I was very successful, seemed to be on top of my game and now I am in financial ruin - I’ve lost everything, my job, my house and now my wife is leaving me too - how can I trust God when everything is being taken away no matter how much I pray?"
I am a double amputee who's lonely and whose heart is hurting.
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "I’m a 45-year-old double amputee. I lost both my legs as a baby. I cry myself to sleep at night. I’m so lonely. It seems like the world has taught ladies to want a…
How is it possible to prepare for my child's death?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "Our son was born with a serious birth defect. The doctors have told us that his time with us will be short and that we need to prepare for his death sometime over the next 6-12 months. How can we wake up everyday and find any joy when we know it might be his last?…”
Do we pay for our sins here on earth?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "I disagree with what you have to say about heaven in your previous episodes. I think everyone is going to heaven because we all pay for our “sins” right here on earth. There are consequences for every action good and bad."
How is the suffering we bring upon ourselves different from the suffering God gives us to mature?
In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "How is the suffering we bring upon ourselves by our choices different or the same as the suffering God gives us to mature? My sister-in-law is struggling with drug addiction. My brother wants to take comfort in the fact that God appointed her suffering, but to me this suffering seems self-imposed. Isn't my sister-in-law suffering as a result of her choices?"
I am afraid to pray for patience. What should I do?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "I have three sons, two have have special needs. I am overwhelmed by how hard it is to care for my boys. I want to pray for patience, but I am afraid that if I pray for patience God will make my life unbearably hard in order to teach me patience. I cannot handle things being any worse than they are now so I don't pray to God and ask for patience...What should I do?"
Can we draw a comparison between how God lost His son to how we lose our children?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "Can we draw a comparison between how God lost His son, Jesus, to how we lose our sons or our daughters as humans?"
Is it fair for me to talk about the problems in my marriage with others?
In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "My marriage is the source of a lot of suffering in my life. Is it fair for me to share that suffering with another person or persons? Or should that suffering be kept between me and my husband?"
Is it okay to pray for the suffering of our enemies? David does!
In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "Is it okay to pray for the suffering of our enemies? David does! But, Jesus says to pray for our enemies and those who persecute us? Why is the Bible not consistent here?"