Ask Dr. Betters
Is My Mom Crying in Heaven?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "What happens if you have a mom in heaven and you know you are going to hell? "
How Do I Do It?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "How can I maintain or strengthen my relationship with God during grief?"
Will We All Fit?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "Can 8 billion people fit into heaven?."
Where Can I Find Help?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "How do I find resources to help me with my grief?" Grief Resources: https://markinc.org/grief-resources
Do I Need Help?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "How do I know if I need a counselor while experiencing grief?"
Benefit of the Doubt?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "How do I handle well-meaning but potentially hurtful comments from others?"
Where Is The Balance?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "How can I balance grieving and living a fulfilling life?"
Is It Too Late?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "How do I accept forgiveness for a sin against a loved one who died?"
When Things Go Wrong How Can I Respond with Righteous Anger Instead of Sinful Anger?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "I am struggling with anger and I just don’t know what to do. I used to be happy but now even the small things that go wrong set me off. I have been a believer since I was a kid and I know that anger is a sin issue in my heart but I don’t know how to deal with it. I have been reading my bible and in Matthew 5:22 it says “everyone who is angry with his brother will be liable to judgment” and this scares me. When things go wrong how can I respond with righteous anger instead of sinful anger?"
My Husband Is More Concerned with Being a Good Son Than a Good Husband. What Do I Do?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "My husband and I have only been married for 6 months. In order to save money to buy a house of our own we decided to live with his parents for a while. It seemed like a good idea in the beginning but now it is causing a lot of tension. I feel like my husband cares more about being a good son to his mom then a good wife to me. His mother tells me all the time that she hopes we never move out and that it would kill her for her son to leave. I feel like I am stuck, what should I do?"
Why Would God Want Me to Be Single and Alone?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "I'm alone. Everyone is always in pairs. The church seems geared toward married people. I think I'm going to be single for my whole life. Why would God want me to be single?"
How Do We Communicate When Communication Breaks Down?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "My husband and I are always fighting. How should we communicate when communication breaks down?"
What Can I Do?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "What practical steps can I take to honor my loved one's memory?"
Stay Current
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "How do I forgive my loved one who died before we reconciled?"
Am I Stuck Forever?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "How can I trust God when I feel I've been stuck in grief forever?"
The Key to Peace
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "What role does forgiveness play in the healing after a loss?"
Death Crawl
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "How can I find peace in the midst of grief?"
Guilt? Regret? What To Do!
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "How do I navigate feelings of guilt or regret in my grief?"
When Will the Resurrection Happen?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "What does the Bible say about when the resurrection will happen?"
Does God Grieve?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "Does God understand my pain, and does He grieve with me?"