SEAT AT THE TABLE OR SERVE AT THE TABLE?
Karen Hodge, Guest Writer
TODAY’S TREASURE
I had spent a long day teaching about how we have the opportunity to image God as we live out our helper design. By the end of the day I needed someone to help me because I was tired and hungry, which is a bad combination. The event coordinator grabbed my elbow and whisked me over to table with one open seat. As I reached for a roll, I began to get the idea my words had caused quite a stir with my dinner companions. The conversation quickly turned toward how women could have a seat at the table in terms of church leadership. It was not the first or the last time I have had this table talk.
What I saw that day was a group of women who sincerely loved the church but were sincerely wrong in their understanding of Biblical leadership in the church for men and women. Positional leadership is life-taking as it stifles the gifts and graces of others. Biblical leadership is not positional leadership but rather servant leadership. Leadership is not having a seat at the table, but rather an invitation to serve at the table. Jesus also sat at a table with disciples who were zealous to serve. They were so zealous they began to fight over who was the greatest. Jesus answers their question with a question, “Who is greater?” Then He gives the answer in His person. “I am among you as the one who serves” (Luke 22:27).
Simon Sinek popular motivational speaker and TED talk speaker wrote a book called “Leaders Eat Last”. He says, “The true price of leadership is the willingness to place the needs of others above your own… Leaders are the ones who are willing to give up something of their own for us, their time, their energy, their money, maybe even the food off their plate. When it matters, leaders choose to eat last.”
The night Jesus had this leadership table talk with His beloved disciples was one of the last meals He would ever eat. He had turned His heart toward to the cross. “He did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant… he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross” (Philippians 2:7-8) He was willing to give up far more than something off His plate, He is the life-giving leader that gave up His very life. “For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give His life as a ransom for many” (Mark 10:45)
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PRAYER
Father, I repent of desiring position over Your purposes. Create a clean heart within me that aligns my motivations with Yours. Transform my thinking so I might consider others as more important than myself. Place a guard around my mouth when I seek to exalt myself. I yield my hands to serve at Your table. Order my steps that I might move towards those who need help and support today.
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Sharon W. Betters is author of Treasures of Encouragement, Treasures in Darkness, co-author of Treasures of Faith. and co-author with Susan Hunt of Aging with Grace, Flourishing in an Anti-Aging Culture. She is Director of Resource Development and co-founder of MARKINC.org, a non-profit organization that offers help and hope to hurting people. Sharon enjoys quality time with her husband, children, fourteen grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.