SEAT AT THE TABLE OR SERVE AT THE TABLE?
I had spent a long day teaching about how we have the opportunity to image God as we live out our helper design. By the end of the day I needed someone to help me because I was tired and hungry, which is a bad combination…
DYING TO LIVE AND DYING TO LEAD
I was 29 when I arrived at a leadership laboratory, just a seedling. I had been married six years and had a two-year-old and six-month-old. I could stop right there in my story and begin to tell you all…
TRANSFORMED LEADERSHIP: LIFE-TAKER TO LIFE-GIVER
I am still trying to figure out who I am going to be when I grow up. We face grown-up situations but deep down there is a little girl inside us who wonders when she will mature. You will never understand who God is…
NEEDY LEADERS AND THE LEADER WE NEED
For years my husband and I fed Wheaton college students after our worship services. On any given week we had no idea how many students would show up. It could be…
LIFE-GIVING LEADERSHIP
I entered the national women’s ministry leadership scene not as a leader but as the pianist. We finished leading the worship, and I found a seat at the back of the auditorium. It was 20 years ago, but I still remember …
LIFE-TAKING OR LIFE-GIVING?
Over twenty years ago I attended my last conference as a member of the women’s ministry team for our denomination. Sadness filled my heart as I let go of regular contact with the women who helped shepherd me through the first five years after the death of my son, Mark. I struggled to accept the “changing of the guard as a good thing.” The Lord had transformed…