Posts in Relationships
Being Lonely Is So Hard

In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, “I have been in relationships for I know I need companionship but it’s not easy being single but how can I love someone who decides not to always be around. I don't want to be alone anymore it feels like I am dating me. I pray to God and all but I feel he been silent to me”

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Is It Okay To Have High Standards For A Spouse?

In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "I'm a female and 80% content and happy about being single. Sometimes I get a strong feeling of wanting a spouse, but the feeling usually passes quickly. But I have such high standards for a man, that I cannot believe there is a man like that. It would take a true miracle of God to actually send me a man with all the values I want. Is it right or ok to ask God for a spouse with specific values, or are we supposed to be open and grateful for whatever He sends?"

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How Do I Minimize My Risk Of Divorce?

In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "Steven asks "I struggle with putting the pain behind me....how do I let go and how can I make myself open to new opportunities? Yes, there is prayer and connecting and strengthening my relationship with God. But the pain is really powerful. I pray to exhaustion and I still have the pain of my divorce. I never wanted my divorce...I only wanted my wife. Maybe it wasn't God's will for us to be married since my wife has no faith in Christ. I'm grateful that we never had children. I'm 39 years old...How do I trust again? How can I minimize my risk of divorce not happening again?"

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How Do I Find Direction In A Toxic Environment?

In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "Hello, I am a college age female and I feel that God has left me. I feel like I always tried to follow his path even when none of my family goes to church, I felt all my life that God was telling me to go one direction in ministry and then when it was time to apply for schools and I tell people they told me that was not my calling…

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