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Our Marriage Is Suffering From ED

In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "Hi Dr. Betters. My husband and I have been together for 30 years. Five years ago my husband was told that he has coronary artery disease and as a result he has ED. In the past several years we dont have sexual relations with each other because of this. I've expressed my sadness about this and I'm angry to some degree because our intimacy has ended. My husband feels badly but still unable to perform . To me this has hurt our relationship which once was wonderful. So now what ? Thank you"

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How Do I Look At My Daughter And Not See Her Sister Who Died?

In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "Robert asked, Hi Dr Betters-I just want to say I stumbled upon your videos and I am so glad I did as I believe there are a lot of people out there that need clarity with what the bible says and how they can apply it to their everyday life, me being one of those people. Back in 2013, my 4 yr old daughter passed away and my life has changed as you can attest to. I was not a Christian at the time but that all changed after her passing. I have been baptized and accepted the Lord as my savior. My heart still is heavy though especially on days like today which was her birthday. The Lord has blessed me with two more children and I do grieve with the hope that I will see her again, but it still hurts deep inside. I guess my question to you is how do i look at my now 3 yr old daughter and try not to think of my other daughter who passed at almost the same age. It seems very unfair to my 3 yr old but it is the reality of life."

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My Stepfather Saw Spirits Just Before He Passed, Is That Possible?

In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, “In the past six months my stepfather who raised me and my biological father passed away. My stepfather was not a happy person and was very abusive. When he was dying I stood next to him and he asked me who were the big guys standing beside me. I had no idea. He had become angry and violent before dying…

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How Do I Deal With A Sudden Death?

In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, “My 21 year old son passed away while at college baseball practice. His heart just stopped. There were no symptoms and no history. He was healthy and not a drinker or drug abuser. He was a wonderful son. He was my best friend. I’m so heartbroken. I don’t want to live…

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My Unsaved Mother Died... What Do I Do?

In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, “My mom just died last week, and I am so scared for her salvation or not. I’ve prayed for answers. I can become a better Christian, and be a disciple for Christ and be there for people and my dad. At the end of the day, I can still not do anything about my mom. How do I deal with this struggle?”

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Should I Pray For The ‘Messy’ People In My Life?

In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, “Hi Dr. Betters. What does God think of narcissists and sociopaths and psychopaths. Do they go to heaven? I was involved with a lady and she destroyed my family and financially. I broke up with her. She hates me but I still feel sorry for her. They are not normal. I pray every day for her. Will God help her if I really pray for her.”

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Why Would God Take My Wife From Me?

In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, “Hi Dr. Betters I have a question about my late wife we were, married one year and eleven months before she passed into eternity. About my why did this happen to me so early we didn’t spend enough time together, she passed on after she gave birth to our baby boy…

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Is Suicide an 'Unforgivable Sin'?

In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, “My fiance, a 35 year old veteran, hurt himself after days of no sleep. I found him when I came home from work. It has been 3.5 months since I lost him, and I worry about him constantly. I know what people say about suicide and heaven, and I hate the thought of him suffering. Does suicide really mean he won’t go to heaven? I long to see him again, and for him to not be suffering anymore. Please help.”

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Can we explain the 'Whys' of God?

In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "Thank you for your videos. They have been very helpful and comforting to watch in my suffering after my Dad’s death due to medical malpractice. I live in Colombia South America. My question is: in one of your videos you mention that the Lord will reveal to us why that terrible event happened. ..

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How Can I Overcome Fear And Guilt From My Past?

In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "We have lost our 3 year old daughter two years back. I went to work and she was home with the maid. She kept the balcony door open and walked away to do some work. My daughter fell down from the 4th floor balcony…

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Is It Wrong To Keep The Memories Of A Loved One?

In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "Is it wrong for me to keep the sympathy flowers for memories? Is it wrong for me to keep my daughter’s ashes? Is it also wrong for me to take the cremains everywhere I go? Is it wrong for me to keep her clothes and her room…

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Does God Want Me To Feel Pain?

In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "I am in pain all the time. My doctor has put me on pain killers for my chronic pain which help although there are a lot of side effects and concern about addiction. Does God want me to feel the pain?"

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