Posts in Grief
Our Marriage Is Suffering From ED

In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "Hi Dr. Betters. My husband and I have been together for 30 years. Five years ago my husband was told that he has coronary artery disease and as a result he has ED. In the past several years we dont have sexual relations with each other because of this. I've expressed my sadness about this and I'm angry to some degree because our intimacy has ended. My husband feels badly but still unable to perform . To me this has hurt our relationship which once was wonderful. So now what ? Thank you"

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How Do I Look At My Daughter And Not See Her Sister Who Died?

In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "Robert asked, Hi Dr Betters-I just want to say I stumbled upon your videos and I am so glad I did as I believe there are a lot of people out there that need clarity with what the bible says and how they can apply it to their everyday life, me being one of those people. Back in 2013, my 4 yr old daughter passed away and my life has changed as you can attest to. I was not a Christian at the time but that all changed after her passing. I have been baptized and accepted the Lord as my savior. My heart still is heavy though especially on days like today which was her birthday. The Lord has blessed me with two more children and I do grieve with the hope that I will see her again, but it still hurts deep inside. I guess my question to you is how do i look at my now 3 yr old daughter and try not to think of my other daughter who passed at almost the same age. It seems very unfair to my 3 yr old but it is the reality of life."

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My Unsaved Mother Died... What Do I Do?

In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, “My mom just died last week, and I am so scared for her salvation or not. I’ve prayed for answers. I can become a better Christian, and be a disciple for Christ and be there for people and my dad. At the end of the day, I can still not do anything about my mom. How do I deal with this struggle?”

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Should I Pray For The ‘Messy’ People In My Life?

In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, “Hi Dr. Betters. What does God think of narcissists and sociopaths and psychopaths. Do they go to heaven? I was involved with a lady and she destroyed my family and financially. I broke up with her. She hates me but I still feel sorry for her. They are not normal. I pray every day for her. Will God help her if I really pray for her.”

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Can Those With Mental Illness Know Christ?

In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, “If some adult is religious but not saved and they have possible mental illness by trauma injury to the brain. Or childhood trauma of abuse or any other cause of the inability to comprehend the fullness of Christ’s salvation and they live with their own ideas of God’s truth? Will he forgive them and save them?”

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Is Suicide an 'Unforgivable Sin'?

In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, “My fiance, a 35 year old veteran, hurt himself after days of no sleep. I found him when I came home from work. It has been 3.5 months since I lost him, and I worry about him constantly. I know what people say about suicide and heaven, and I hate the thought of him suffering. Does suicide really mean he won’t go to heaven? I long to see him again, and for him to not be suffering anymore. Please help.”

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