What She Said! Paula Miles What She Said! Paula Miles

Not Easily Tossed or Blown

On October 3rd, 2017, waves came for our family when our son, Clary, a freshman at Clemson University, was in a serious car accident.  In God’s providence, the circumstances of the accident took him down a ravine to the edge…

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What She Said! Elizabeth Turnage What She Said! Elizabeth Turnage

Don’t Panic – He’s Got You

On an ordinary day in August, our son went for a routine sinus Cat-scan; that same day we learned that my father-in-law would need open heart surgery. My husband flew off to be with his parents. Shortly after 2 p.m., my mother-in-law…

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What She Said! Elizabeth Turnage What She Said! Elizabeth Turnage

Becoming Mature and Complete

On the first day of August, I had jotted a note in my prayer journal under our son’s name: “humility and gratitude.” It’s not that he isn’t generally a humble and grateful twenty-two-year-old—but really, what twenty-two-year-old couldn’t stand to grow in this area? Or what fifty-two-year-old couldn’t grow a little more, for that matter?

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What She Said! Elizabeth Turnage What She Said! Elizabeth Turnage

Your Only Comfort

As I waited in a dimly-lit hospital hallway for our son to finish his first MRI—the one that followed the incidental discovery of a “something” on his brain, my mind turned to the first question from the Heidelberg Catechism…

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What She Said! Sherry Bitler What She Said! Sherry Bitler

It’s All About Me

The pastor’s words rang from the pulpit.  Each word pronounced distinctly and clearly.
“We live our lives as if it’s all about me, it’s all about me”.
What does that mean?  What does that look like?

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What She Said! Sherry Bitler What She Said! Sherry Bitler

It’s the Simple Things

Zephaniah prophesied during the reform of King Josiah who brought spiritual revival to Judah after a long reign of evil.  He pronounced God’s judgment on corruption but also talked about God’s plans to lovingly restore Judah…

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What She Said! Sherry Bitler What She Said! Sherry Bitler

A Starting Over Handicap

My mother informed me one day as she was telling stories about my childhood, “Your kindergarten teacher tirelessly encouraged you to rework your project in a different direction.  When you felt you had made a mistake, not doing what you had planned to do…

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What She Said! Sherry Bitler What She Said! Sherry Bitler

Learning to Wait

As I write this, my multiple sclerosis is causing some balance difficulties.  My doctors are working with me to figure things out. MS is as unique as its victims are unique.  Necessary to “figuring things out”, is waiting. There is a lot of trial and error…

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What She Said! Holly Mackle What She Said! Holly Mackle

A Stinging Realization

A few years ago, a light bulb went on in my marriage. While on a weekend getaway with some couple friends, we were asked: “What have your biggest marital arguments been about?” As we answered, an embarrassing and unfortunate…

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