A few weeks before my 30th birthday I attended a 30th birthday celebration for another woman. My family and I moved to town just a few months before….
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I’ve been a pastor’s wife now for over a decade. It is a beautiful privilege and heavy responsibility. It is a role that comes with many joys and sorrows, benefits and sacrifices, unexpected gifts and…
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Church conflict is no fun. Understatement of the year, right? Whether it is a small fire that pops up in a small group or a full-blown congregational wildfire, church conflict is…
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Several years ago while on a road trip, I got to connect with a dear friend for lunch. Over salad and sandwiches, she made a statement that caught my attention: “Pastors’ wives have…
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Whether we realize it or not, each of us is a teacher—a model of how to live out the faith we proclaim. We are guides to the generations who are currently…
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I first “met” Katie through her article, “Why I (The Pastor’s Wife) Have Trust Issues”. She caught me! I wanted to hear more from this writer who expressed so well the struggles of marriage to a pastor…
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Our new decade opened with slogans of “seeing clearly” and “having 2020 vision.” Little did we know! It’s been a rough year, hasn’t it? Collectively, we’ve experienced a…
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In my neighborhood, at the end of the street, there is a wall that has continually been bashed into by cars taking that corner too fast. After the latest gash in the wall months ago, the homeowners…
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Have you ever badly injured or even lost a part of your body? Several years ago, I experienced the head saying to the feet, “I have no need of you.” For a couple of years,…
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I grew up in a rough and tumble neighborhood full of boys. Being one of the only girls my age meant I was amazing at basketball, playing army, and Tarzan (I always got to be Jane). Fighting for my “place”…
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Yesterday, we reflected on the mercy and privilege of being called by God to Himself and to His family. United through Christ’s saving work, we are tangibly connected…
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I married my rural Arizona high school senior sweetheart. He was a football stud, while I was the nerdy student council officer. Back in the day, he and I chose very different…
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2020 will be remembered as the year that was. I wonder if we will start asking each other, where were you when you first heard the word “social distancing” or rushed to…
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I suppose I should have expected his arrival. But, distracted by other things, I didn’t notice his approach until it was too late to bolt the door and deny him entry. By the time I perceived…
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The year after we moved to Georgia, my husband Ray and I began a tradition we called “walking the property.” Let me dispel any notion you may have about us owning…
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Death has visited my family often in October. Three of my four grandparents, a beloved aunt, a cherished uncle – all six passed away during the…
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On a sunny spring day in 1997, my beloved husband was laid to rest in a small country cemetery in North Carolina. The part of my heart that belonged to Ray went into the grave with him…
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Over two decades have passed since my husband’s sudden death. I’ve received countless notifications since, informing me of the passing of various friends and…
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February 1998. Ten months earlier my beloved husband, Ray, died of a heart attack a few weeks after his 39th birthday. Even though I was a rational person who could recount…
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Many years ago, I opened the back door to welcome our dear friend into our home. She was not much older than me and grief ravaged her face…
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