Do We Have to Clean Ourselves Up in Order to Be in the Category of Someone Who Has Truly Repented??
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "Is repentance leaving all sin and then getting saved? I still smoke cigarettes!! Does that mean I’m not truly repented and saved? Do we have to clean ourselves up in order to be in the category of someone who has truly repented??"
Admission Compared to the Rewards in Heaven?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "I have been studying Heaven and trying to understand admission versus the rewards in Heaven. A preacher/teacher explained that Heaven is like going to a football game. Our ticket - Jesus gets us inside the stadium. Our life - deeds - our fruit determines where we sit. On the 50-yard line or in the nosebleed section in the end zone. Is this simple analogy valid? Thanks for all you do."
Isn't God a Title, Not a Name?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, a response to "Is saying Oh my God blasphemy?": "Isn't God a title, not a name? I mean, his name is not God. If you said Jesus, that would be saying his name in vain or saying Yahweh."
How to Deal with Chronic Pain?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "How can we be expected to live with a disability that causes us constant pain when heaven is there? How can I not want an end to my pain without going against God's plan for my miserable existence?"
How Do I Find Hope in Darkness?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "I know I need to be in the Word and praying, but I am in such a dark place, filled with sadness. How do I find hope?"
What Should You Do When You Can't Pray?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "What should you do when you cannot pray? I have reached the point a few times when I felt so sad, lost, and overwhelmed that I could not even pray. I reached out to others to pray for me at those times, but I still felt really isolated."
How Does God Bless the Hurting?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "How does God really bless people who are in pain, people who are hurting? What does it mean to be blessed by God?"
How Can I Trust God?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "I recently lost my job - I was very successful, seemed to be on top of my game and now I am in financial ruin - I’ve lost everything, my job, my house and now my wife is leaving me too - how can I trust God when everything is being taken away no matter how much I pray?"
Is My Mom Crying in Heaven?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "What happens if you have a mom in heaven and you know you are going to hell? "
How Do I Do It?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "How can I maintain or strengthen my relationship with God during grief?"
Where Can I Find Help?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "How do I find resources to help me with my grief?" Grief Resources: https://markinc.org/grief-resources
Do I Need Help?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "How do I know if I need a counselor while experiencing grief?"
Benefit of the Doubt?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "How do I handle well-meaning but potentially hurtful comments from others?"
Where Is The Balance?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "How can I balance grieving and living a fulfilling life?"
Is It Too Late?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "How do I accept forgiveness for a sin against a loved one who died?"
When Things Go Wrong How Can I Respond with Righteous Anger Instead of Sinful Anger?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "I am struggling with anger and I just don’t know what to do. I used to be happy but now even the small things that go wrong set me off. I have been a believer since I was a kid and I know that anger is a sin issue in my heart but I don’t know how to deal with it. I have been reading my bible and in Matthew 5:22 it says “everyone who is angry with his brother will be liable to judgment” and this scares me. When things go wrong how can I respond with righteous anger instead of sinful anger?"
My Husband Is More Concerned with Being a Good Son Than a Good Husband. What Do I Do?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "My husband and I have only been married for 6 months. In order to save money to buy a house of our own we decided to live with his parents for a while. It seemed like a good idea in the beginning but now it is causing a lot of tension. I feel like my husband cares more about being a good son to his mom then a good wife to me. His mother tells me all the time that she hopes we never move out and that it would kill her for her son to leave. I feel like I am stuck, what should I do?"
How Do We Communicate When Communication Breaks Down?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "My husband and I are always fighting. How should we communicate when communication breaks down?"
What Can I Do?
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "What practical steps can I take to honor my loved one's memory?"
Stay Current
In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "How do I forgive my loved one who died before we reconciled?"