Hope for the Parents of the Prodigal Child ~ from a Prodigal
Barbara Miller Juliani
Do these words haunt you: "Mom, Dad, I don't want your rules and morals. I don't want to act like a Christian anymore! And I'm not going to," Barbara Juliani (then Barbara Miller) made this declaration at the age 18. As her father desperately attempted to reason with her, Barbara grew more resentful, choosing a path of immorality that only deepened her parents' pain.
Such a declaration from a child, no matter their age, creates havoc and soul-searching in the hearts of their parents, who often ask, “What did I do wrong?”
In this conversation with Sharon Betters and Jane Anne Wilson, Barbara Juliani shares her story and addresses some of the ways parents take on the guilt of their children and responsibility for their decisions. You might be surprised by some of her conclusions. Her dad, Jack Miller wrote:
"I am not ignorant of human depravity," writes C. John Miller, "but I had long denied that it could exist in our family." That reality, however, forced him to confront his own sin, seek forgiveness, admit his inability to change his wayward daughter, and begin loving Barbara on God's terms.
In their book, Come Back, Barbara, "Jack" Miller and Barbara Miller Juliani chronicle their journey from grief and conflict to joyful reconciliation. Come Back, Barbara is thus an irresistible portrayal of God's grace to the Millers and us all. Our conversation with Barbara reminds broken-hearted parents about the freedom of experiencing such grace in the midst of their child’s rebellion.
Help & Hope Story: Motherhood, Shame & Guilt with Barbara Juliani and Jane Anne Wilson
For more about Barbara’s journey as a prodigal child, check out Come Back, Barbara. Come Back, Barbara
Biography of Barbara Miller Juliani
Barbara Miller Juliani, MA, Stanford University is an author, Bible teacher, and editor. She co-wrote Come Back Barbara with her father, C. John “Jack” Miller, and edited a book of his letters, The Heart of a Servant Leader (P&R), and a daily devotional, Saving Grace (New Growth Press). She is also the Vice President and editorial director for New Growth Press, a Christian publishing company where she oversees acquisitions and content. Her husband, Angelo is the founding pastor of Bridge Community Church (PCA) and the director of Comfort for Africa, an ongoing medical, relief, and church planting mission. They have four children and ten grandchildren.
