Boundary Lines in Pleasant Places
God’s Presence in Grieving: A Personal Journey
Sherry Kendrick, Guest Writer
TODAY’S TREASURE
This is my favorite verse in the Psalms. “The lines have fallen for me in pleasant places; indeed, I have a beautiful inheritance.” The lines in this Psalm would have been about land portions. The land would be the inheritance that God is giving King David. David saw that God was protecting and providing for him within those boundary lines. I am learning that God provides and protects me in the boundary lines He has given me. I have a “Miss Judy” lamb. It is an endowed gift given to every baby born in our church by an elder in honor of his wife, Judy, who gave this gift to children in our church until she went to heaven. When Mike died, our Wednesday midweek kids program was studying about Jesus being our good shepherd. During the week before Mike’s memorial service, I invited one of my spiritual moms, Edie, her husband, and her daughter, Kristin, and her family to come share a meal with us. As we were eating, Kristin’s oldest son, Bryson, brought me a present to open. I opened the card he had made first. It said, “Miss Sherry, I want you to have my Miss Judy lamb so you will remember Jesus is your good shepherd too.” My heart was comforted in this gift. I rejoiced at the connection of the gift. This grandchild of my spiritual mom was ministering to me!
This child that I have the privilege of teaching was showing me he understood what we had been teaching him. But most of all, this little one was giving me a gift from my Heavenly Father to remind me of His presence with me. My Miss Judy lamb plays Jesus Loves Me and it sleeps in my bed. Jesus is indeed my good shepherd and His pasture, for me, is my boundary line that He has drawn in pleasant places. Within His pasture, I am safe to grieve deeply. There is comfort as I weep and wail in my Shepherd’s arms. Healing will begin to take place in this pasture as He walks with me. As we walk together in the pasture, He provides my daily needs - my home, my food, and my employment. And just as importantly, He assures me of my calling and my purpose in daily living. In this safe pasture, I can make the adjustments and changes that follow death. I look around, and He has also provided a community of sheep to surround me. My family and close friends and my church family are here in this pleasant place to comfort me and care for me. It is indeed a beautiful inheritance.
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LIFE GIVING ENCOURAGEMENT
Grief brings an interesting combination of feelings. Weeping exists with rejoicing. Thankfulness exists with sorrow. Gratitude exists with deep pain. In the boundary lines of this pasture, I am free to have all of these emotions. One of my favorite quotes of this year is from author Kenneth Haugk: “In a sense, grieving is actually a show of faith. We are trusting God to hold us in our most vulnerable time when our feelings are raw, our life is in pieces and our strength is gone. If that isn’t faith, I’m not sure what is.” Let your Good Shepherd hold you as you grieve deeply and worship deeply, all at the same time!
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Sharon W. Betters is a mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, pastor’s wife, and cofounder of MARKINC Ministries, where she is the Director of Resource Development. Sharon is the author of several books, including Treasures of Encouragement, Treasures in Darkness, and co-author with Susan Hunt of Aging with Grace. She is the co-host of the Help & Hope podcast and writes Daily Treasure, an online devotional.
Contact Sharon with comments or questions at dailytreasure@markinc.org.